Vicki Mills
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This Book Empowers Women!
Vicki Mills shines a light into the dark corners of the narcissist’s mind with her keen insights from a lifetime of lived ex
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periences and research. Narcissists are professionals at the game of “Charm”. In true loving relationships, you must have three things: love, trust and mutual respect. In a relationship with a narcissist, you have none of those, only a partner who is very good at playing the role of a person who cares.
Understanding how debilitating having a partner with narcissistic personality disorder would be will prevent you from being conned and fooled by them. This book gives a fresh approach to the understanding of narcissism. It gives you valuable insights and tools, and strategies to deal with a narcissist partner. It explores how your own body’s chemicals play a role in “falling-in-love and keeping you hooked”. This unique information will become your “super power”.
From years of experience as a biologist, educator, curriculum writer and fighter for women’s rights she has crafted this intelligent and relatable approach to understanding the narcissist. You will learn that knowing the meaning of the “Opposite of Love” is a key to unlocking the door into their world of opposites. It will show you that fighting with them will not work. They have an insatiable need for control and manipulation, and Vicki gives you the “know-how” to deal with them through knowing these traits and tactics.
You will be able to spot the red flags early, preventing future heart-ache, or if already in a relationship, have a roadmap for breaking trauma bonds to gain back your sense-of-self, self-esteem and find yourself again.
The subject of narcissism seems to be everywhere! Because there are three times as many male narcissists as female narcissists, women are getting disproportionately abused in narcissistic relationships. Being able to tell the difference between the run-of-the-mill, selfish man, and a full-on fire-breathing narcissist is a must. Learning about this subject should be a self-defense requirement for women, right up there with karate and mace.
Love and loss are more intense, far-reaching experiences with a narcissist because of his need to “love bomb” you into falling in-love quickly, before you get to know who he really is. You will learn how the dangers of a narcissistic relationship are much more insidious and injurious than a typical bad relationship; more than most people understand. Tactics such as gaslighting, minimizing, hoovering, withholding, projecting, passive-aggressive swipes, branding and labeling can cause profound loss by losing other relationships, even after your relationship with the narcissist is finished.
If you are feeling overwhelmed, unsure what is happening in your relationship and don’t know what to do; or just want to know more about narcissism, this book is for you. The knowledge, insights, stories and strategies will get you back on track, give you the ability to regain your confidence and power, and get you to the life you deserve.
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